A Word to the Men

Ok.

I want to talk to the men. Married and Single men.

A thought goes through my head this morning and I'm wondering, "Why on earth are there many single men and single women in church?" Why does it seem the single church girls end up marrying a "bad" boy who doesn't do church?" Why do the church girls find the church boys unattractive? I might not be able to answer these questions to the detail but I would like to talk to my fellow church boys...UP YOUR GAME MEN!

It seems we have mastered the art of sharing scriptures but are clueless about wooing a lady...

Every woman...in fact, every human being yearns for some intimacy...some physical touch...some romance...

She needs to feel swept off her feet mehn, so as you share them scriptures...take her out on a date...whisper into her ear and tell her sweet words...paint a picture of a future together that she desires...touch her...YES I SAID IT...TOUCH THE WOMAN KWA...hold her hands...put a hand on her shoulder...pretend to dust off something off her face...***winks***

Kilode...that's exactly what happens when she meets that bad boy who don't come to church...he tells her sweet things...he paints a picture of a future (even if na lie)...HE TOUCHES HER KWA...

Next thing, she be feeling good and she be thinking of this dude all day and all night...and then she be considering spending a lifetime with him simply because...HE MAKES HER FEEL DAMN GOOD...(pardon my french!)

LOL...

So my brothers in Christ, this is what I would have you do as this year winds up and we approach a New Year...

Is there a sister you like in church???

Oh Boy you need to make that sister feel good and you just might be on your way to a lifetime together forever...hahahaha

Brother, you need to get a job and make some cash...take her out to a movie...dinner...stroll and get some ice-cream...make her laugh...make her look forward to seeing you again and again and again...MAKE HER FEEL GOOD...!!!

Be BOLD...ask that sister out...what's the worst that could happen??? She's either gonna say YES or NO!

KEEP KEEPING ON AND GET THAT WOMAN MEHN!

I wish you a very Merry Christmas and a Happy New Year ahead.

Cheers.